I love the Grateful Dead. Their music has been a huge part of my life for as long as I can remember, and I've been to more than my fair share of shows over the decades. Every concert was completely different, and that was part of what made them so special. Before the music even started, my friends and I would play "Name That Tune," trying to guess what Jerry Garcia and Bobby Weir were working out on stage before settling into the next song. Somehow, every show became legendary, not just because of the music, but because of the adventure that surrounded it.
No Dead show was complete without wandering through Shakedown Street. We'd grab a grilled cheese, browse all the incredible vendors, and inevitably come home with something we probably didn't need. I still have a collection of tie-dyes that I absolutely cherish because every one of them reminds me of a place, a show, or a friend. Looking back now, I realize those concerts were never just about hearing the Grateful Dead play. They were about freedom, friendship, discovery, and the feeling that anything could happen that day.
Dead shows were my favorite days.
When Jerry Garcia passed away, I couldn't bring myself to see another Grateful Dead show for a very long time. It wasn't because I stopped loving the music. It was because I couldn't stop thinking about one decision that had stayed with me for years.
Someone offered me a ticket to what would become Jerry's final show. at Soldier Field. I turned it down because I went the night before and didn't feel like dealing with traffic coming from my parents' home in the suburbs. Of all the reasons to say no, that was the one I chose. A short time later, Jerry was gone, and the Grateful Dead would never be the same. I was absolutely devastated that I missed that concert, but over time I realized I wasn't grieving the concert as much as I was grieving the opportunity I let slip away.
That experience stayed with me for a long time. It taught me something that I don't think I fully understood until years later. Sometimes we say no because something feels inconvenient, or because we're tired, or because we'll "do it next time." The problem is that sometimes there isn't a next time. We never really know which moments will become the stories we carry with us for the rest of our lives.
Since then, I've tried to live differently. I don't ever want to miss out on an experience because I was too comfortable to say yes. You never know who you're going to meet, what unexpected treasure you'll discover, or what memory you'll still be smiling about twenty years from now. Some of the best things in my life happened because I simply decided to show up.
One of my favorite Grateful Dead lyrics has always been this:
Sunshine daydream
Walking in the tall trees
Going where the wind goes
Blooming like a red rose
Breathing more freely
Ride out singing, I'll walk you in the morning sunshine
Sunshine daydream
Those words have taken on an entirely different meaning for me over the years. They remind me to keep saying yes, to trust the adventure, to breathe a little more freely, and to keep walking toward whatever comes next.
In many ways, Lyrical Sunshine was one of those opportunities.
I'd been thinking about creating this brand for years. I had plenty of reasons to wait a little longer, to put it off until life slowed down, or until the timing felt perfect. Then one day I realized I didn't want another missed opportunity sitting on the shelf beside that concert ticket. So I finally said yes.
I'm so glad I did.
The Grateful Dead gave me incredible music, unforgettable memories, lifelong friendships, and a lesson I'll carry with me forever. Opportunities don't always arrive with flashing lights or big announcements. Sometimes they simply show up disguised as an ordinary invitation. Looking back, those ordinary invitations have shaped some of the most meaningful parts of my life.
I hope you'll take your own leap of faith when the opportunity comes along. I hope you say yes to the adventure, even if it's a little inconvenient or a little uncertain. Maybe it will lead you somewhere unexpected. Maybe it will introduce you to someone who changes your life. Or maybe it will simply become one of those memories that makes you smile years later.
I hope it leads you to your own morning sunshine and all of its unlimited possibilities.
Sunshine Daydream,
Lindsey
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I too miss everything the Dead had to offer, no other band like it in the world 💜